Where do I see evidence of your disdain for women? Here:

"Men don’t gravitate toward women they’re not attracted to - it’s that simple."

So you choose your male friends by their personalities, but you see no reason to spend time with a woman--no matter how intelligent, accomplished, or admirable she may be in other ways--unless she's physically attractive. Apparently, in your mind, women have no value but to please your eyes. That's what I mean by disdain.