"When you're accustomed to privilege . . ." These so-called men object to being held accountable for what they do and say, or being expected to show any degree of emotional maturity. They're snowflakes, screaming and clutching their <ahem> pearls when anyone challenges their entitlement.
HVP of any sex, gender, or orientation are adults who have lives and interests of their own, can hold up their end of a conversation, don't need a partner to do their adulting for them, and appreciate others as unique individuals and not just as a source of sex or other favors. HVPs have HV friends who bring out--and expect--the best in them.
I find it hilarious, the way the redpillers and their ilk complain that the attractive women (those being the only ones worth dating) are only interested in attractive men.