We all need to be encouraged to value our sexual feelings--meaning all the feelings that go into sexual decisions as well as the feelings aroused by sexual touching--enough to take our time about selecting partners.

It seems to me, the Tinder culture is about skipping the preliminaries, choosing partners for their looks, and having sex with attractive strangers. I guess I would have found that game appealing 50 years ago, but now I fail to see the joy in it.

Thanks for your comment.