Thanks for this. It's what I needed to read today.
Having recently been dropped for no good reason by someone I had seen as a best friend, I'm wrestling with that familiar urge to pursue. But there's no point in arguing my case. She knows who I am, and she knows the quality of the relationship she turned her back on. Her life, her choice.
I know, whenever someone dumps you, they are doing you a favor. But it never feels that way.