Thank you for your kind words, Patricia. I keep writing on this topic because I feel it's an important one, and it's been central to my own identity for so long. But the topic never draws a lot of readers, not like some of my stories on dating or religion. So it's nice to know someone appreciates my efforts to wake up my fellow XY types.

I absolutely agree about what makes sex great, which is the mind-to-mind connection, the confidence of trust and caring, the thrill of sharing one's self with a self deserving of your worship. That will be another article at some point--how consent is not a box to check, but the best part of the whole adventure, the process of getting to the yes.