So this man thinks (using that term loosely) no woman has a right to expect basic human decency from him unless she makes his dick tingle. Wow.

So to the claim that every fellow human being makes on us--for dignity, for acknowledgement of our interdependence, for courtesy, and yes for a modicum of respect--his answer is, "What's in it for me?"

He makes a caricature of himself, of course, by bragging that his musical tastes run to "hot" (and pale-skinned) female singers. He's like the child who was asked by the librarian what kind of book he wanted, and replied, "a yellow one."

Race notwithstanding, I'm betting he's a MAGA man. Making every relationship transactional, never doing anything for anyone who isn't going to pay or praise or fuck you, would make perfect sense to him.