Shame can be a healthy feeling, though. It need not be a personal humiliation or a cause for depression. Without the capacity for shame, pride is dangerous.

The United States would be an infinitely better and healthier nation if we shared a sense of shame over our history of enslaving Africans, excluding and interning Asians, exterminating Native Americans, exploiting Mexicans (not to mention stealing half their land), and testing thermonuclear weapons on the already-defeated Japanese.

It is a shameless man who sees your Asian beauty as a sexual invitation.