One thing I love about browsing Medium is the opportunities to learn about people whose experience is not like mine. Hence I have read a bit about bi erasure and the various ways bisexual identity is challenged as invalid in the queer community as well as the straight world.

I say, stand your ground. As Oscar Wilde said, "Be yourself--everybody else is taken."

Thank you for contributing to our education. And congratulations on your marriage.


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