Of course that isn't your intention. It is not your words that shame me, but the truth behind them, that you speak for countless others who tried to love and to connect and just got used and then insulted.

You understand at a visceral level what sex should be about. But too few men are capable of sharing such a wondrous gift. It is as if our species is forgetting how to make love, and the quantity of love within our world is hence diminishing. Who would not grieve?