My perspective is that any serious relationship needs to begin with friendship, and that even if it doesn't turn into a romance, a lasting friendship is a treasure to be cherished. Many of the (usually) men who find themselves diverted into the dreaded zone, might have had a better chance if they had focused first on making a real connection and getting to know each other as unique individuals instead of trying from the get-go to get down to business in the bedroom.

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