.I'm not talking about men who can't find dates or get laid, but about the incel movement, a malignant cesspool on the internet

I don't think androgyny in itself is a problem, especially to the extent that it means showing some emotional intelligence and sensitivity. In matters of style, tastes change, and many Gen Z women are drawn to looks that would not have drawn anything but hoots in my day.

But mentoring is certainly the best answer. Because the mentors they're finding on the internet are scary ones.