Great article, Harris. Sound advice all around, though it may not be well received by those who need it most. Much of it comes down to "grow TF up," which no one wants to hear.

The point I'd be tempted to add, though it would be even less welcome to many of those guys, is "become a feminist." Men who recognize the indignities and inequities women face, and listen when women talk about those issues, are likely to evolve into genuine allies who will be appreciated by mature women.