Flattered? Oh, I know what you mean. It feels good to know attractive people are attracted to us. But DT would argue that women should be flattered when he grabs and gropes them.

Alcohol lowers inhibitions, of course, but the more important thing it does (for some people) is provide deniability, like no one should take offense at them for violating boundaries.

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