Far too many men want sex without connection, for reasons I could never comprehend. My dearest fantasy is one of endless kisses, cuddles, collaboration, and conversation--friendship, in other words, that is as real in bed as over coffee. And my pancakes are to die for. Unfortunately, my age and poverty end the conversation before it has a chance to start with most of the women I would love to cook for.

That said, there are many younger men who would be overjoyed to find a partner who appreciates what they can bring to a relationship. So don't give up your dream or settle for less than you deserve.

BTW, I love the new picture.